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USRAH BUDI 2

USRAH'S E-PORTFOLIO

Name: Iman Adriana Bt Ahmad Radhuan (2015324)

Kulliyyah: IRKHS 

Course: IRK (Major in Usuluddin and Comparative Religion) 

Course Code: CCUB 1062 SECT 206

Marriage in Islam 

Assalamualaikum, hi, annyeong and good afternoon everyone! Omg, when I open my blog I only can say it is a long time no see my blog! Okay, the reason I am here to talk about my Usrah Budi E-Portfolio!! Now, I am 2nd Year student so this is my second Usrah session and it might be the last session of Usrah Budi. Ok, my topic for the roleplay is 'Marriage in Islam'. It is a huge and hot topic to talk about but yeah I did it and my team members also did it. Actually, our topic is not about marriage but it is about fasting and suddenly someone told us that we cannot take any topic in the syllabus, OMG!! We are in danger! Thanks to Sister Syila for suggesting this topic and how we got this topic. So, as usual, I have to talk about the 'hikmah' or the reflection that I got from the roleplay. 

    First of all, our roleplay is superbly fun and just as Syila told us before it was like 'kursus kahwin' without we realize it. Marriage is an important phase in our life because everyone will marry one day. We cannot say we do not need a man or partner because even the Quran said we are created in pairs so we cannot deny the fact. Moreover, marriage can prevent Zina because if we look at our society right now, the couple becomes something normal even in Islam it is prohibited. Also, marriage is not only about loving each other but it is about duties and responsibilities. For me this topic is really fantastic because everyone will have their own preference about their choices, right? It same with me as well because to find someone right for you is not only looking at their looks. If the world just looking for a handsome guy then how about someone with a 'so-so' look? Actually, beautifulness and handsomeness are freaking subjective in every eye. So, we cannot find someone by his or her looks. In my opinion, I love to recommend if you really want to find your right guy, why not choose some who opposite with you because without you realize actually, you will have a lot of chemistry after that. I can give example like I prefer someone who does not study in religious studies because I study for it so why not choose someone from Engineering or Architecture? For his personality, you can choose someone who almost dresses up like you or love some brand like you. (e.g.: Vans, Skechers and Typo brand) But it is different when it comes to finances, you have to find someone who has the same finances as you. If you are an M40 boy but you want a T20 girl so have to know her demands and follow her demands, if it is just a small matter so go for it but if you think it is hard for you find someone else. I might not experience a relationship but lately, I have already thought about my future and someone approached me and proposed to me so it is really opened my mind that marriage is everything about the future. The most important that you have to think about is 'SEKUFU' it is really important for us to take note!

    Even in one hadith from Sahih Bukhari also mentioned "Oh young people who is able to marry, should marry". The hadith explained "Oh young people", young people it does not mean the kid or the teenager but the one who is ready to marry because when it comes to marriage we have to think about finances, child, family matters and even basic necessities. It may look easy to find a man and get married but it is about after getting married is the point. Wow! I think this is my first time type many things. 

    In conclusion, for me any topic we might choose have their own benefit and knowledge but Alhamdulillah because this topic comes, it also delivered well during the roleplay presentation. Marriage is not a game but it is the reality that we cannot turn back or we can change once it has been done. The husband should know his duties and also the wife should respect her husband. Having a healthy relationship it can help to gain a harmonious family.

Poster from Usrah Budi 1

    Before I forget, this roleplay should collaborate with the first roleplay during Usrah Budi 1 so what can I conclude is during the first roleplay, I did not do the presentation for the first time roleplay so during the second roleplay I can see and get beneficial input from every group about their topic. This is also an amazing experience because in my first roleplay my group choose about parenting topic so it is a wonderful topic that I think everyone should know and study. The topic is good because some of us think sending our parents to old folks homes is wrong but have we listen to our parents the reason they want to stay there? I learnt much input during the first roleplay and I enjoyed it. For the second roleplay, it was much fun because of the topic itself because who does not like marriage, right? So, we can see marriage is one phase to lead us to be good parent. Actually, without concern, the first and second roleplay is related to each other because when we are married, we will be parents so it is developing our parenting skills. During the early stage of married, most parents might not be good at it but the experience is the best lesson.  

    Last but not least, I should say thank you to my Naqibah for this semester Sister Aisyah Solihah without her guidance, I and the rest of my classmates cannot finish our Usrah Budi 2 well. It might differ from my Usrah Budi 1 but knowing new people and new styles of learning is also fun.  

Sincerely,

Iman Adriana